Why the hell people send text messages to your ex in the challenges of social networks?


Lately, there has been another wave of challenges “to send text messages to your ex” on the social networks (some are jokes, while others appear open to reconciliation). Tik Tok and You Tube are full of people who have decided to communicate with an ex and send text messages with song lyrics, random.

What could be the reason for the current health crisis, or people are looking for a cruel way of entertaining their followers on social networks? The cheat sheet of Showbiz spoke with relationship expert Jaime Bronstein to accept this challenge unusual.

Cheat sheet the world of the show: Could you explain briefly what it is about the challenge of text-your-ex?

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Jaime Bronstein: People are sending text messages to your ex lyrics
songs For example: “Hello” from Adele. People like how to
your ex are answered. Some ex sending text messages that also miss them
and others are sending text messages of confusion and disbelief. Then the user
publishes the responses to get more views and interactions on your page.

CS: In your opinion, why do people send text messages to your ex?
Is it because they are afraid of being alone during a pandemic?

JB: One of the reasons why people send text messages to your ex is because
now you have much more time to think about them and in the failed relationship.
If someone exceeds your ex, you might reflect on what could have
done differently or how they wish it would have worked, so that they communicate with
Try to connect again.

In their lives prior to the quarantine they were at work, seeing friends. and stay busy, but now with the additional downtime, begin to live in the past. They feel they have nothing to lose, so that contact to your ex no matter if the relationship was good or not. Simply miss them and they are alone.

Another reason why people are contacting their exes is purely
out of sheer boredom. These people were not necessarily sad because the relationship ended,
and not necessarily miss your ex. You are bored and want to be
entertaining by Contacting an ex who you are
Since you are not interested, but you know he still loves you, can be a boost for the ego. Their
It is not the movement more sensitive to do, but it happens.

CS: What are the most effective ways to reach a
what ex?

JB: If anyone really misses her ex, a
An effective way to communicate is to call them by phone or text message that you want
talk with them and ask them if there is a moment in which you could talk on the phone. you
you could send your ex an e-mail authentic from your heart and mention that you would like to
to catch up with the phone because the misses and I would like to know what there is
going on in your life.

CS: When is it a bad idea to contact an ex?

JB: It’s a bad idea to contact an ex if you were in
An abusive relationship. It’s a bad idea to contact an ex that you know that not
I want to go back to be with you, because you will end up hurt
again. It’s a bad idea to get in touch with an ex if you know that is 100% above them, and
not strange, but you’re bored.

CS: How should you respond if an ex contacts you?
of the blue and you don’t want to reconnect?

JB: If you don’t want to reconnect, just be honest
you’ve moved forward and that you appreciate that you have communicated, but you don’t see
A point in the communication.

Continues to Sheiresa @SheiresaNgo