Demi Lovato don’t bother to try to be a friend of your ex



When Demi Lovato and Wilmer Valderrama have announced their break up in 2016, they did so by ensuring that they had realized that their relationship worked best if it was limited to the plane of the friendship and, in fact, a year later she shared a photo of the two embracing each other and smiling in their social networks, to show that they were still “best friends regardless of anything else.”

However, the passage of time proved that he was wrong and the singer herself recently acknowledged that a long time ago not to talk with the actor, in person or by phone. The same thing has happened, as has now acknowledged, with the vast majority of their exnovios, including for example Joe Jonas, who remained in the periphery of your social circle even after the end of his courtship of adolescence because of the friendship she had with his brother Nick, who came out even on tour.

“Before I had a very different mentality, I thought that if I had had a negative experience with someone, I needed to fix things or that we reconciliáramos in any way,” he has confessed to Jameela Jamil on her podcast ‘I Weigh’. “The simple truth is that, to day of today, I am not really a friend of any of my former partners because I realized that it was not healthy”.

On the other hand, the ‘blame’ for that is not only yours. Demi has given to understand that many of their exnovios gave him more than enough reasons to cut all contact with them.

“I’ve now been able to let go of certain people, as I understand it. This has been one of the things that I had to learn to remove toxic people from my life: if you are an ex, it is for something,” he added.