“After ‘good night, Cinderella’, I could never go out again” – International

Mia, a young white woman with short black hair and green eyes, smiling
Mia says she stopped going out at night after being drugged (photo: Personal Archive)

The night of January 17, 2020 was supposed to be a normal Friday night for British Mia Doshi Prichard. She went out drinking, dancing and having fun with friends.

Instead, she ended up being drugged by a stranger with a substance that leaves the victim unconscious or semi-conscious and vulnerable.

The scam, often used to commit sexual crimes against the victim, is known as ‘good night Cinderella’ – a name that is also used to refer to the narcotic drugs used in the attack.

The episode caused her to stop going out at night—something Mia doesn’t do anymore to this day, more than two years later.

“Over the next few months, I had panic attacks when I tried to go out at night,” the 21-year-old tells BBC Newsbeat’s radio show. “I’m always paranoid and I get the idea that ‘something is going to happen’.”

A report by a group of British parliamentarians showed that being attacked with narcotic drugs can have long-term consequences and “lasting effects on the victims’ lives”.

The document says there is anecdotal evidence that putting drugs or alcohol into another person’s drink without their consent is a very “widespread and dangerous” practice.

‘I blame myself’

Mia tells about the night she was drugged. She says she drank the same amount as her friends, but was the only one who felt “disoriented”.

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A report by a group of British parliamentarians showed that being attacked with narcotic drugs can have long-term consequences and ‘lasting effects on the victims’ lives’ (photo: Getty Images)

“I left my glass alone for a minute to dance with some friends. So I keep blaming myself, which is awful,” she says.

The young woman had “disappearances” and remembers some moments of the night, such as “falling in front of the bathroom” or “holding on to a handrail” to need to stand – something that had never happened to her.

Mia claims that being doped can affect people’s psychological health for a long time.

She even tried to go out with friends again, but couldn’t. “She had panic attacks and made it even worse for ruining my friends’ night.”

‘I will never accept drinks from strangers again’

Another victim, 30-year-old Saskia Boissevain, says she has been feeling vulnerable for a long time and is now much more careful in dealing with strangers.

She tells how she completely lost her memory after being drugged in September 2021.

Saskia went out with a friend in London, and after accepting drinks from two men, she began “falling over the edge”.

“The next morning I woke up and I was lying on the floor of the bathroom in my apartment. I didn’t remember anything after I had had the drink,” she says.

Now she’s more careful with her drinks. “Not necessarily afraid, but I’m more careful and would never again accept a drink from a person I don’t know.”

She also drinks less depending on where she is and with whom.

“I feel more comfortable if I’m going out with my fiancé, which feels wrong. But I definitely don’t drink anymore if I’m only going out with one or two friends.”

‘I lost confidence’

Briton Niamh Donnelly says she was in a “warm up” with friends at the house of acquaintances, getting ready to go to a party, when she was drugged. This happened about a month ago.

“I ended up in front of my house totally unconscious. People on the street had to help me get into the house. It’s hard to deal with what happened,” he says.

She was so affected by the episode that she left the university she attended in Nottingham and returned home to another city.

Since then, Niamh, 21, says she’s been afraid to go out and has lost trust in people she thought would keep her safe.

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Saskia says she didn’t know what to do after the attack she suffered. (photo: Personal Archive)

“As a woman, it’s very important to feel safe when you’re out with friends, and to have people who will make sure you’re safe,” she says. “Going out at night is dangerous. And I realized that very harshly after what happened.”

Now Niamh says she would think twice about going out again in the city of Nottingham.

“It’s definitely made me super alert and I’m not going to share a drink with anyone anymore. I’m going to keep an eye on myself and the people around me more than I ever would before,” she says.

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